According to webmention spec, if someone tries to notify my site that there is a link mentions my post, she has to do the following:
curl -I https://dannypsnl.me/xxxto get my webmention endpoint in thehead- post the data, where
is the link refers to my postPOST /webmention-endpoint HTTP/1.1 Host: dannypsnl.me Content-Type: application/x-www-form-urlencoded source= target=https://dannypsnl.me/xxx